As the year goes by

It has been almost one year since your life here on earth ended and you went to your heavenly home.  I have cried, I have laughed, I have mourned your death and I have been grateful for the 22 years we shared.

I miss you so much, yet you are always with me. I see your face in the clouds, I feel you by my side at the sea, I walk through the ball park and football stadium and your spirit surrounds me.

As much as I wish that I could be with you, I know it is not my time. God will call me home when his time is right. Until then, I will fight. I will fight to preserve and honor your memory. I will fight the darkness that overwhelms my soul. I will fight for my right to grieve when people say that I should just “get over it”. I will fight to learn how to live as the new me in a drastically changed life. I don’t mean that I am going to be arguing with the world and everyone in it. I mean that I will stand strong against forces that try to bring me to my knees.

You may not know it, but you were loved by so many people. So many call you their brother or best friend. Your smile lit up the world. Your presence in a room made life a party. Your laugh was contagious. Your loyalty to those you loved is remembered as one of your best qualities. You loved and lived life so fully, and enjoyed the moment. If anything, that is what I would like to learn from you.

I love you, Donald Gwarjanski.



A Very Important Message to All Women In An Abusive Relationship

This is a very important message and the link ti her friend’s blog leads to a heart wrenching post about the murder of her best friend. As a woman who, somehow, found myself in an abusive relationship, I encourage all women to read this and the safety plan. It might not be you, but it may very well be a family member or friend.

Ladywithatruck's Blog

Below is the link to the blog of a wonderful woman I am honored to call friend. Her sister was murdered by her soon-to-be ex husband. Kim writes with raw emotion so make sure you take tissues. At the end is a link to a do to list if you are planning to leave your Narcissist.

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